The Top 3 BDSM Sex Toys To Buy In 2020

It looks like 2020 has thrown at us everything imaginable, but because we're curious creatures, a lot of people have started experimenting sexually. I know I’ve experimented quite enough during the lockdown and I’ve tried things I didn’t even dream about doing before. My girlfriend and I experimented for two months with new positions, sex toys, and equipment and I can honestly say that our sex life has never been better! Surprisingly enough, both of us really enjoyed rougher sex and we decided to invest in a couple of BDSM sex toys! We bought some amazing ones, but we also threw away our money on some sex toys we tried using only once! I decided to create a list of the top BDSM sex toys you can buy, no matter if you’re a beginner or experienced in BDSM. I’ve tried all of the sex toys with my girlfriend and can say that they are amazing and definitely worth buying! To be completely honest, I’ve tried a couple of sex toys even before meeting my girlfriend. I used to visit escorts before and while reading some London escort reviews, I came across a few girls who were supposed to be amazing with sex toys. Because I wanted to try something new back then, I decided to call and arrange a date. At first, I didn’t feel so comfortable using anything but once I saw the power that was in my hands, I couldn’t imagine sex without using a sex toy.

The Almighty Vibrator

Even though a vibrator isn’t a BDSM sex toy, it can be used in a lot of BDSM action. I decided to include the classic vibrator on my list because it’s the first sex toy I used with an escort and the things we did were absolutely mind-blowing. When my girlfriend and I decided to invest in some sex toys, a vibrator was the first thing on our list. Because we both knew she’d be the one to use it, I let her pick the exact vibrator she wanted. Once we tried it for the first time, she was satisfied more than ever and I was so excited that I performed better than I ever did. Because we already started experimenting with BDSM, I tied her hands behind her back and she was on the bed, face down. I started stimulating her with the vibrator, slowly increasing the intensity of the vibrations. A few minutes later, she was screaming with excitement and pleasure and begged me to stop. It was only a sign that I was doing something good and I continued satisfying her until she eventually reached climax! After a while, we even did some double-penetration with the vibrator and it was absolutely amazing!

Cuffs For Light Bondage

Before we got a pair of cuffs, we used whatever we could find to tie up each other. We used ropes, towels, and belts - basically anything we could use! Because we liked it so much, we decided to get real cuffs because we were running out of ideas and it was too easy to untie yourself when we used a scarf for instance. The moment we tried the cuffs, it was a complete game-changer. Just knowing my girlfriend couldn’t move and I could do anything to her made me more aroused than any other time before and I felt really powerful! I can’t say that I haven’t been tied up as well and it’s an incredible feeling. When we used other things to tie up each other, it was just too easy to cut loose, but when I tried getting out of the cuffs, I couldn’t move an inch! I had to learn how to give myself to my girlfriend and completely trust her! Honestly, the cuffs were the turning point and made our sex life absolutely incredible!

Wearables For Spicing Things Up

After trying out a few sex toys and equipment, we started buying lingerie and footwear. Personally, I always had a thing for high heels, stockings, and lingerie. Because my girlfriend is a slim blonde with long, sexy legs, I knew she’d look absolutely fantastic if she accepted to wear something like that. I bought the lingerie and asked her to choose a pair of high heels that she thought would look great on her. She didn’t know I ordered a couple of pieces of lingerie and on the same day, two packages arrived at my place. The first one was the heels she chose, and the other included some sexy lingerie that also included latex! She wasn’t comfortable with the idea at first so I told her just to try it on. Once she came to the bedroom wearing high heels and lingerie, I couldn’t hide my excitement! I felt like we were in a porn video and I jumped her right away! We both agreed that it was the perfect investment because we had sex several times more per week than before! We even started doing some kinky roleplay and having sex was more fun than ever before!

Blindfolds

Getting a real blindfold was the last thing we decided to buy, especially because my girlfriend was always afraid I would bring someone for a surprise threesome. I would never do that without her consent but she didn’t know that for sure and she wanted to be sure. After some time she decided to trust me and we got a blindfold. Even though we got the blindfold, my girlfriend never wanted to put it on. She only put the blindfold on me when she tied me up. To be honest, being deprived of seeing anything allowed me to use my imagination a lot more. I’m extremely attracted to my girlfriend but when I can’t see anything and when she doesn’t make a sound while we’re having sex make my mind go crazy! After some time she decided to put the blindfold on because she couldn’t ignore the fact that I liked it so much. I knew she was afraid the first time she was blindfolded and I’m pretty sure she expected someone else having sex with her when she took the blindfold off. After using it a couple of times, she even suggested a threesome! We didn’t know who to invite so we visited a couple of free local sex sites and found a guy she really liked. The threesome was absolutely amazing and it’s all thanks to the blindfold we got to spice things up!

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